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Sunday, March 18, 2012

Mega Post-a whole month of "ketchup"


So what's Up???
Well, let's just say, we are all adjusting, finding our routine, setting a new standard for what normal will look like in our household, and calling out to Him who has led us down this path to strengthen and sustain us thru the twists and turns.
In looking back over the last month's activities and all, I have to say,
Lif e is really pretty good!!!
Yes, there have been issues-we have some sadness, we can have poutiness, we can have outright "I don't want to do that" attitudes-(from both girls)
BUT
the unbelievable thing is, we have actually had a very smooth transition.
I have found that my worst days are the days that start with me getting up too late for Bible time and prayer-those are the days I am short of patience, energy, compassion, and long on sighs, fretting, stewing, and wrong words.
We have 7 children-life is not all roses
We have a fairly small house-we are short on space
We have 2 new older children who have their own ideas of what they like, what they want to do, wear, eat, and play
We also have 2 children who do not have a great command of the English language-one does not have much english at all
We also have 2 little boys with special needs-developmental, speech, and cognitive
There are days when I want to pull my hair out.
There are days when I want to dive back in bed, cry my eyes out, and hide from them all.
(Maybe I should do that instead of using the wrong words and getting angry?)
YET, thru it all, I see His hand on all of this.
He is stretching me, and Chuck, and growing us to be more like Him. (it's slow work, we are kind of stubborn and we don't see what He wants sometimes)

I see how our girls fit into our family perfectly.
I see how our family is adjusting, complimenting one another in areas where some are weak, others are strong.
I see how we are finding our rhythm and keeping things under control in the house, doing school on a regular basis (huge praise), preparing and eating good, healthy meals, getting outside to play and work together, and we are LOVING one another!!
(ok-sometimes we are loving one another-I just had to referee a dispute between a 13 yr old boy and his 7 yr old brother-they are like oil and water-YET, I THINK they love each other :)  )

I mean, it looks like they love each other, doesn't it???

The days are not slow, they fly by pretty quickly, there is ALWAYS something to be done-meals to fix,dishes to do, laundry to do, and very little computer time for this blogging mama-

yet they are full days, full to overflowing with all the things a mama should be doing.
Managing her nest, schooling her littles, feeding them, bathing them, clothing them, loving them, training them, and sometimes, even playing with them :)So, while I appreciate all my followers, and enjoy reading all the comments, know that this won't happen on a regular basis-we are in the trenches of homeschooling and discipling our children-there just isn't enough time in a day for too much more-and I do like my sleep, so staying up too late is not a good option, or I get up too late, and then the day goes south FAST!!!
OH NO-oh, no, it's not what it looks like
there is not real blood-just 3 littles playing together-loving it when they use their imaginations
and play make-believe together.

Things we have enjoyed
There are many nights where we have some playing ball, some playing trucks, and some doing word searches.
Usually, all at the same time.
WE have lots of outside time, with swings, walks, riding scooters and trikes, playing in the wet sand (so much fun to wash clothes like that)
Lili is very fond of playing with trucks with Isaiah and Isaac, and sometimes, Tyler gets in on it too. They can get a whole pile of them out, and make a whole bunch of noise, but it is great to see them all on the floor having so much fun-and our hallway-it is either a runway, ball field, or skating rink, depending on the day.
We have several old metal Tonka trucks that are at least 40 years old.
I commented on their antique value-simply because one of them is all broken up now due to a certain 3 yr old who THROWS them-Chuck said he would rather have them all played with by children who used to NOT have toys, home, or family!!
Love that guy's perspective on things :)
We love sitting around at night in front of our parlor stove

 and listening to a good message that can help our family grow to be more godly. We are currently listening to a set from Vision Forum on Family Strategies-very good-and usually about 30 minutes, so even our non-sitters can about handle it :)
We sing together some nights, and in the morning read our Bible after breakfast, clean together, and then disperse to our own areas for school time.
For the most part, I would say we love school at home.
Nick and Kendell love heading up stairs to do their own thing-
Rose hits the dining room table
Tyler gets a table in our bedroom (he is learning to read and some peace and quiet are way more conducive to that than 3 littles racing around)
Lili really wants to do school, but becomes easily bored
Zaya and Zaccy LOVE school, but there is only so much of me to go around, so I usually get them something fun that they haven't had for awhile and leave them to their own destruction for a bit while I work with Rose and Tyler.
We finished up our science co-op a week ago, and it is good to have one subject finished for the year. It did get a bit difficult once home from China-we were doing Anatomy, and it is pretty intense, and for some reason, once 4 sit down to do science together, the other 3 thought they needed to be in on it too-so we usually did science ALL together-that was a bit crazy, but we survived, and probably even learned something too.
Dishes and clean up can be the lengthiest part of the day-3 bigs in the kitchen, and its not that big-and there is LOTS of giggling, laughing, joking, and occasionally, we need to reign them in and remind them there is actually work to be done-ok, usually most nights-but they do get it done, and in good spirits too!!
I would say we are really loving life as a family of 9-they love that our Yukon XL is maxed out-and they argue over who doesn't have to sit in the front next to mom and dad-funny a couple years ago they all wanted to sit by us:)

The Bluff
I love having a camera junky in the family. Kendell takes the BEST pictures, and has a great eye for a good shot. Her favorite shots are of her siblings-I love that-BUT I wish they would remember to get her in the picture sometimes too-
Nick, Ken, Tyler and Rose have taken a few walks up to the bluff-you can see for a LONG ways, and they love going up there-
here are a few of my favorite shots







The Spring


We also have a spring on our property-and one Sunday afternoon, we went for a walk-and enjoyed some crisp, clean water-this is another favorite spot to visit-






The Creek
This has to be the most requested spot to walk to though
They LOVE going down here, and even tho it is too cold to play in it, they manage to get wet and enjoy themselves anyway-
Rose loves asking to go to the Water-when it warms up, I am sure I won't see them much!







Isaac turns 3
We had another special birthday 4 days after Rose's 14th.
Our little man, our baby, our peanut, turned 3.
He is still our little guy-he still "looks" like a wee one-only wearing 18 moth, maybe stretching into 24 month now, BUT, we have to remember, he is a 3 yr old in a wee body-he has the energy and desires of a 3 yr old, and we are being challenged daily to help him to grow to be a young boy, and not try to keep him a baby.
It is SOOo hard if you look at his extreme cuteness, his little ways that still seem baby-toddlerish, his littleness, yet, inside, there are big boy dreams trying to get out.
Once we took him out of the one-piece suits that he still fits in, but don't fit his age, once we put him in jeans and shirts, instead of snapup onesies, even putting him in a stocking hat instead of one that ties under his chin-all of a sudden, we see a little 3 yr old.
A little boy who is trying very hard to manipulate his tongue right so he can learn to talk.
He can hum Amazing Grace and Jesus Love me, and it is ADORABLE.
His vocabulary consists of Of Wuou), (love you) of wu (thank you-used appropriately)
aww do (all done), eoo (hello)
we know there are words he is trying to say, he signs please, more and help me all appropriately
we are thrilled with how he is wanting to communicate, how he wants to be by us, how he comes to us for consoling, or help, and how he plays so nicely.
His little walk is way less toddler and more little boy now. except it's a RUN, from the time he gets up until he goes to bed at night :)
He is getting along fabulously with his new sisters, and he is loving all the freedom that comes with warmer weather, less clothes, and more outside time.
He is a precious little boy, and we are so blessed to have him
 as a part of our family.









we also made a trip north to visit with Grandma and Grandpa Waughtal, and they
spoiled Rosalyn and Isaac with a few treats, and another cake too.


Grandma scored a big hit with Rose when she gave her a watch.
Kendell told me later that Rose had been saying "Rosie watch?" quite a bit, so now we just have to teach her to tell time. :)
But she is thrilled with her present, and wears it all day long (and all night too, since it has a light)

Celebrating Tyler
On March 8, we had the honor to celebrate FOUR years with our precious son Tyler.
It seems incomprehensible that we have had 3 complete years with Tyler, and are beginning our 4th family year with him.
He has passed the threshold of living in a family longer than he was without his forever family.
We are thrilled with that-we are thrilled with his energy, his attitude, his smile, his love.
Tyler loves life. and he lives life feriously.
He is a go-getter, full of life, full of ideas, full of spunk, sometimes full of naughtiness, but we love him, and we are loving life with Tyler.
Besides Isaac, Tyler is probably Kendell's 2nd favorite photo model. Probably because he is around more than Nick ( who is always helping Daddy) and because he has a fabulous smile, and is a giant ham in front of the camera!
So, without further adieu, I present....
TYLER.....










I am sure there are more things I would like to say about our the last month, but blogger is giving me fits with loading pictures, and its time to just try to stay caught up, so I will close.
We thank you for stopping by, and may God bless your day, wherever you are, whatever time zone, whatever continent, whatever area of ministry He has you in at this moment, may He be your all in all, your sustainer, your strength, your Savior, your King of Kings, and your precious Lamb of God.
In Him
Chris and family


15 comments:

Symasek Family Circus said...

Oh, Chris, THANK you for this post!! We are currently waiting on TA for our 2 newest additions...sometimes, I just want to cry because I think, "Lord, how am I going to school all 7? How am I going to disciple them? How are we going to get doctor's visits done? And when everything is said and done...how am I going to love them well?" I just enjoyed reading all of your catch-up...especially since you guys are pretty much "newly home"! :-) Many blessings!! Nikki :-)

michelle said...

Chris-
So happy you did "ketchup"!

Thank you for sharing and these wonderful pictures (Thanks to Kendell too).

We cont to wait for our referral (we have increased our age(s) and we also have felt called to open our preference to siblings, just wanted you to share as in part, watching your journey has helped us to embrace listening to Gods message to us, better. As our three get older we are thinking it would be great to love on two, and they have each other. So we will see what God has in store for us all.

Your life, as you well know it, so very full, you amaze me in all which you accomplish. You truly are serving and living a life embraced by our Lord. Wishing you all the best...

Michelle
http://mandmsvisionaryvista.blogspot.com/
http://ourafricanbundleofjoy.blogspot.com/

kimjax said...

I'm so glad to hear how things have been going!! I even stayed up late to read it, lol! It's funny that I just did a similar post today - we must be finally "catching our breath" after all the changes. :) I envy your country spread, friend. I bet it's beautiful when it greens up. Getting outside has been so good for my girls as well. Keep leaning on the one who is the source of our strength and blessings.

Tammy said...

Praying for complete peace and some rest for you Chris...happy one month.....each one gets a little easier......

blessings

Tammy

Wife of the Prez said...

Chris thank you for updating! I just love your heart and your honesty!

I do hope you find some time to blog from time to time. Your posts are always a blessing to me!

I too do have envy as Kim (I know it is wrong but just being honest!). We are looking for something just like you have, but we just can't afford it around here. Maybe someday ... in the meantime, do share from time to time so we can have envy a bit LOL, though I'm happy for your beautiful family of 9!!!

Joe and Jane said...

What a terrific post! Your boys have grown! I love hearing all about your daily activities. My kids are very into imaginary play as well. I also love the photo of the kids doing their school work and seeing the interest and focus on their faces. How great!

Kendell said...

hi,
nice post mom :):):)
love-Kendell v. Waughtal

The 4-O-7 said...

Thanks for sharing your beautiful family Chris. :) There's so much in your post I could just cut & paste onto ours. It's so wonderful to have a sister who is traveling along a similar path as I am. God bless you & keep you.
Love ya ~Tina

Redeemedmama said...

Beautiful, loving post Chris. Thank you for updating. I especially relate to the take care of the most important relationship first. Bible time, quiet time with God sure helps a mom have some perspective! blessings to the whole crew, Tammy

Diane said...

Thank you for sharing! I am so glad that things are going well overall. I can't begin to imagine how busy you are.

Amy said...

Chris,

I absolutely loved reading your 'epic' post about your beautiful family and all of your joys and challenges in the past month! The photos are amazing, and so is your strength, perseverance, and love - it shines through!

I pray that you are able to find that 'balance' as everyone continues to settle in. :-)

Take care!

Amy

K said...

It's great to read an update. I remember taking about two months to get into a routine that was finally our new normal.

Your children look very happy!

My dossier was sent to China yesterday!

jewell said...

So very happy to have a view of your month. THank you for taking time to share your precious family with us, and let us know how the Lord is fitting you all together!
With joy!
Monique

Lillie Family said...

oh your family is so amazing Chris!! Thanks of the post and all of the updates. You inspire me...I have those days when I want to pull my hair out and I only have two!!

Yvette said...

Loved to see all of the pics - these were awesome!!